The more you try to take... the less you end up with. Isn't life all about balance? If we want something in life, it's so important that we must learn to bring that in this world first. So in order to receive, we must learn to give first. All the messihas, prophets, masters, gurus, avatars of the Gods have spoken thus.
The secret of abundance lies in giving first and in sharing, be it love, care, success or any material thing we want to possess.
The book The Secret talks of it in detail and in depth.
